Friday, September 26, 2014

A Home, Not a House

A house has bricks or siding, windows and doors; a home has people and memories.  I find myself reflecting upon the differences of house and home as I am selling my "home" for a move to a new city and a new country.  I have never  been sentimental about "things" but this house has been home for over seven years and it is rich in experiences. 


Friends gathered

Holidays celebrated


Pets basked in the sun


Children cooked

Kids moved off to college

Halloween goblins readied to trick or treat!

I look forward for our new adventure and we will create another "home."  For the next family in our home, I hope they continue what this home has been for so many. It is not just a house.

xo vagi

Wednesday, September 10, 2014

Having Coffee

September 11, 2001 evokes a multitude of memories and emotions for many.  For me, it was a first date. That particular date has continued thirteen years later, and has flourished through career changes, children (both existing and newly developed), geographical moves and strong personalities.  It has never been an easy path nor one taken for granted.

That day I remember clearly in finite detail, as to where I was, whom I was with and even precise time frames.  It was and still is a moment in time when we all stopped.  We huddled around televisions, we embraced, we called loved ones and we reflected.  I had a date.

I spoke to my date prior to our scheduled meeting time and place, and I don't remember who initiated the call.  We confirmed regardless of the circumstances, we were still "on."  I do remember the place, the coffee and the conversation.

I always feel humble and thankful when September 11th nears, not due to my date experience and its longevity, but due to my own existence and ability to articulate that.

On this September 11th just appreciate.

xo vagi